Little Alexandra

 Alexandra is 4 years old now. She has recently started her sports "career". She seems to love soccer and basketball and softball. Little League will start for her in a month or so at Northwest Forsyth American Little League in  Lewisville NC (NWFALL)I cannot wait to see her play.  I am going tot ry to keep up with how they do. Alex is hittingpretty good already. I think she does well for a girl that turned 4 a couple of months ago. Here is a video of her hitting:

No too bad eh??

Anyway she is starting, Bubbles will be playing Little League baseball and travel softball with the Dazzle again and Mahala will be playing volleyball again. Hopefully I will get to see most of their games. I will miss some of Bubbles' games thoughf or the first time when Alex starts since they both will be playing on Saturday. I have no idea how we are going to deal with 3 of them doing sports at the same time. It is going to be a challenge!!

Fastpitch Softball Tryouts Part 3

The coach for the Denver Dazzle (formerly GBC Crushers) called us a couple of days before their last tryout and offered her a great spot on their team. They were going to wait until Saturday but changed their mind I guess. Anyway,  they offered her a regular spot in the pitching rotation and a spot as a full time utility player and she decided to go with them. She loves the idea of playing different positions. Very excited to see how it goes. There is a possibility of a few of her friends from other teams joining also. So I guess our search is over for the time being. I guess it's time to start a Denver Dazzle 12u blog... maybe someone will read that one...


To be continued......

Fastpitch Sfotball Tryouts part 2

We found out that the team our Peaches were supposed to combine with (Carolina Xtreme), was a pipe dream. It didn't happen so we are definitely looking for another team.


Lady Razorbacks :

My daughter played with a couple of other ex-Peaches for the Lady Razorbacks in a NSA tournament. This was also a kind of tryout for their team, which is out of Salisbury, NC. All the girls played extremely well. My daughter hit better than she has this year with a 2b, HR (inside the park), 1b, and got on base 3 times with bunts. Her best hit was a line shot that the 2b caught by making a very good play. She pitched 1 inning for them and did well. I think she did really well. We just got an offer from them to play full time.

We also went to a Denver Dazzle private tryout this week. I like their coaches a lot. They seem to have a real plan for the team. It was a very good tryout. She did everything they asked her to do with no problems. Every throw to 1b was on target and she caught everything in the OF that was hit. She did better than even I thought she would. Her pitching was good as she even hit her spots! I am almost sure we will hear from them this weekend.

She has also been playing with Chatham Elite. The coach there is a really nice guy and she loves him and the girls a whole lot. It is a long way to drive for practice for us but they have already offered her a spot on the team. She has played well for them and pitched well also.

We also have a tryout with the Blue Angels schedule for next week. Don't know a lot about them but we will see.

I guess the final decision will be up to her but I am going to try to make sure she finds a team that will let her pitch at least some every tournament and will let her play most of the time. She has been playing too long now to be sitting the bench. I really don't think that is going to be a problem though.

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How many of you remember the tornado that hit Wal-Mart in 1993. It got Petersburg, Colonial Heights and Hopewell among others. I lived about a mile and a half from that Wal-Mart and did not hear a thing. It never stormed or anything at my house. My sister let me know about it (she saw it out of her window) and we went out like stupid kids (after dropping my girlfriend off at one of the malls - she was on the Emergency Crew) and took a bunch of video of the aftermath. Anyway here it is in case anyone wants to see it -----

Fastpitch Softball Team Tryouts!

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My daughter is 11 years old. She has played travel fastpitch softball for 4 North Carolina teams.   Recently we have found out that her main team was combining with another organization and that just having a 12u team is up in the air. So we are searching for another team and I thought I would write about her experience going to tryouts and such. We are looking for a team that will let her pitch. She got no pitching time at all this spring with her main team. So we played little league so she could pitch. Now, though, she is filling in for a few tournaments and the way she pitch
ed last weekend I think she will get a LOT of time on the mound (yay!). She is very happy about this.

We had to decide which tryouts to go to on which days because the Fever and Xtreme have them on the exact same days (Monday and Wednesday).


We started out going to a tryout for Fatpitch Fever 12u team. There were about 20 or so girls there. She is trying out for pitching, 2B and OF. I understand they have 2 already so I am not sure how much time she will get in the circle. However, she really liked the coaches and the girls that showed up. She pitched well and hit the ball very well. She only got to field 1 fly ball though because her pitching time cut into her OF time. No worries though. I think she did really good and 2 of her old teammates also showed up to tryout. The fielding went really fast and that was nice. Not much downtime at all for the girls.

Next is Carolina Xtreme....


The Xtreme is supposed to be a mix between her old team and the old Carolina Xtreme. We were told that there would be a 14u team and a 12u team. At the first tryout 1 12u player showed up. At the second there were 3 and that includes my daughter and a friend of hers that I brought. At the 3rd tryout yesterday there were more at least. I think witht he old Peaches and the girls that have showed up we almost have enough for a team. The problem is it really seems like the 14u team is the priority and the 12u team is just an afterthought. IT may not be true but it seems that way. I cannot blame the coach though, that team is going to be really good and he is all about winning. So although it appears we could have a team if they really wanted to I am not counting on it. It sucks too becuase the girl we brought lives close tot here and she has no other way tot get to the practices and games except if I bring her. So if there is no team she gets left out as that is the only area I can pick her up and take her to practice. Also NONE of the old Xtreme girls showed up for any tryout.  Oh well. I heard one of the coaches really want the 12u team so I hope he takes charge and gets a few more players and we go on like we have been.

At the third tryout they took fielding and hit off a team. Then they were divided up and one team took the field. While coach hit the ball the other team ran to simulate real situations. It was cool. At the end they did base running speed. I was amazed. The girl I took actually had the fastest time from 2b to home - and there were some fast girls there. I knew she was fast but I had no idea she was that fast. I KNOW that caught their eye. I hope it turns into something.

On to the next tryout which will be : GBC Crushers. (recently changed to Denver Dazzle 12u)


The Crushers coach has actually been out to 2 tournaments to watch another girl and my daughter so I got to meet him. He seems very cool and I like what he was saying.  More later.

So you want your daughter to play travel fastpitch softball huh...

This is for the parents of girls that want to play softball... or maybe she already plays rec or little league and you are thinking of taking the next step - travel fastpitch softball - and you have never done anything like this before. I just wanted to share my experience. I am sure yours will be different, but it will give you an idea of what to expect I hope. For the record none of my kids ever played any kind of travel sports before this so everything I experienced was as a first timer.

Finding a Team

The best way to find a team for your kid is to visit the local fastpitch softball oraganizations' message boards at the end of the summer or the beginning of fall. Around here the organizations are Top Gun, NSA, and IFA. Coaches are always posting about needing players. Also they post a lot of tryout dates and locations. Most of those you can just show up to - some you have to let them know you are coming. Most posts will give all the details you need. Also if your daughter has a private hitting or pitching coach, make sure you let them know to keep and ear out for a team that needs a player - especially if you missed the fall tryout season. Something will always happen on somebody's team where they need another player or 2. Maybe they had someone quit for another team, who knows. Coaches hear about that stuff a lot. You may have to take her to a lot of tryouts to try to schedule as many as you can. My daughter's pitching coach actually found her a team when she was 9. That was the start of all this.

Getting Her Ready

Now let me give you some advice. If you practice with your daughter like I do, you do not want to neglect any part of her game. Travel ball players practice almost all year long. My daughter wanted to pitch so bad and we were so focused on that - we didn't practice her hitting and fielding. She was a good hitter and decent fielder but after a winter of only pitching her hitting and fielding suffered greatly and that almost blew the deal. She worked extra hard on her hitting and fielding and I really believe by the last few tournaments of the summer she was one of the best hitters and fielders on the team. Make sure you work on everything before you try out. These girls are good and coaches can tell when a player hasn't picked up a bat since the fall season. It took my daughter more than half the spring and summer season to get her swing and fielding back up to par. Some girls are probably good enough to get away with this more than others. My kid has to keep practicing but she loves it. That's the other thing about practicing. Does your kid want to practice? We go out all the time and have a net in the backyard for soft toss and a pitching lane. At first she was pitching every day - now it's more like 4 times a week (she's 12). She swings her bat 4 or 5 times a week too. Not all kids will want to do that and not all will need to.


Are You Willing to Travel to Practice?

The team Keri started travel with was a startup team called Team TFS out of Burlington NC. This was their first 10u team in the area. Now because we were so late to the party we pretty much had to play for them or not play - luckily the coaches were great. Now it was an hour drive to practice 2 or 3 times a week... that is something you have to think about. Are you willling to drive that far? Maybe you will get lucky and get on a closer team... We drove 2 hours round trip for practice and it was worth it for her (she loved the coaches and players)  so it was worth it for me. We did find a closer team the next year because of the drive and because my kid needed to move up a level age wise and that team did not. Start early in the Fall if you can when looking for a team. The earlier you start looking in the fall the better chance you have of finding the right team. Take her to as many tryouts as you can, even if you think you probably won't play for that team. The tryout experience will be great for her.

Do you Care if They Lose?

Keri's team was a startup team. That means there were a lot of players that were just starting travel ball, and that means tough times. They didn't win a whole lot, but they did get better. They never got a trophy until the last tournament they were in. We were fine with this. Maybe you won't be. That team is a really good team this year so if you have a good coaching staff and patience, you will be rewarded. The team she is with now is really great too. The coach doesn't care about winning trophies just for the sake of getting one. He wants the team to play great competition and win there - and he will not settle for less. I love that.

Playing Time

How much do you expect you daughter to play? Every parent wants playing time for their kid. We ran into this on our first team. Keri first joined the team as a part time player. The coach made it clear that she wouldn't play much and that she could play little league and just come to the games she could make which I was fine with - but that's a very unusual situation. Then some players quit and he asked us to join full time. The problem with this was she still did not play much when she wasn't pitching. One tournament she played an inning and a half even with her pitching. That would be fine if she hadn't given up little league where she would play every inning of every game. Luckily for us, she got a lot better during the season (from her hard work and extra practicing) , started hitting and earned plenty of playing time the last few tournaments. My feeling is that if you want someone on the team, you should want them to play, not just to take up space on the bench. Not all coaches feel this way though. You should definately make sure this is clear before you join the team. We learned the hard way. .On her current team the coach made sure he told us that he doesn't keep players unless he wants them to play and he has kept his word and she has played very well for them so far.

(On a side note I hope you do NOT have the experience my oldest daughter had in club / travel volleyball. She joined the Triad Spikers Volleyball Club in High Point NC when the director told us they really needed players and she would get "plenty of playing time". So $500 later we found out they just wanted her to ride the bench 80% of the time (sometimes more). This was a team that never won and was in the lowest bracket and most of the players were no better than my daughter - sorry had to vent). Point is you need to try to make sure the team fits what you are looking for before you drop your money on them.

Are You Ready to give Up Your Weekends?

I love being at the ball field. I can't get enough. The fact that my daughter plays makes me very happy. Do you like being there? I hope so because on average you will be there every other weekend (or more) from early Saturday morning to 8pm or later (we have been there as late as 11pm) and then again early Sunday til whenever you lose out or win your bracket. You will be there a lot. Most of these tournaments will most likely not be in your area (unless you are very lucky) so you may have to drive an hour or more to get to these places. You could stay for the night if you have the money I suppose (see the next section).

Get Ready to Pay Up

Do you have a deep wallet? Some teams are very expensive but if you make it to one of these teams you already know that. The teams we have been on are pretty reasonable. Between $250 and $400 for the spring season. this year we have 9 tournaments scheduled and will most likely play more - then you have to do it again for the Fall season. Doesn't sound too bad. Don't forget to factor in gas, meals, travel chairs, sunscreen, hotels, softball equipment, water .or sports drinks (which I hate), water  and snacks. There are many ways to save money though. Last year was our learning year. We ate out a lot. We found out we could not keep doing that. This year we started packing all our food. We bought a travel propane grill for $45. The propane tanks are 2 for $5. Now we have a family of 5 and sometimes take friends so buying hot dogs or hamburgers to grill will saved us a ton of money when you figure how much feeding 5 or 6 people eating out would be. We pack sandwiches for lunch and snacks like chips, crackers, fruit, plenty of drinks, nuts and other assorted stuff. Still it is a lot cheaper. We also do not get hotel rooms. Most of our tournaments are about an hour and 20 minutes away. When we factor in the gas vs. a hotel room we come out much cheaper driving. Now if the tournament goes really late we have decided this year to try to find a room just so we can get some sleep.

You also have to factor in the costs for the parents equipment. Things that you wouldn't think of normally like a canopy for hot sunny days  (it helps in the rain also), a wagon to carry all your stuff around, travel chairs for everybody (you do not want to sit on the bleachers all day and night), a cooler (which you probably have already), and in some places blankets and a propane heater (believe me, after your first couple of tournaments with temps in the 30's you just might want one too). These things really make the weekend better. But not everyone uses all this stuff and you might not need it. Lots of people just use our canopy. I don't mind at all but I would rather have one for myself than rely on someone else to bring one. I am also looking for sides for the canopy so we can have a heated "room" on the really cold days. One parent on our team has a wagon that has been modified to have 3 levels. that is pretty cool. We are also getting a trailer hitch for our mini-van so we can just put the wagon on there instead of inside the van.

Get Ready To Be Proud Of Your Kid!!

These kids are worn out after a tournament. They play more in a weekend than they play in weeks of little league or rec league ball. They will all do something to make you proud during any tournament whether it is getting a big hit or just hustling to keep someone from scoring. It is a very rewarding experience for your child. I can see the love of the game my daughter has and it really makes me a proud father to watch her give 100% effort to help her team win. The players become a family and would do almost anything for one another. The coach is one of the most important people in their lives. It really is a wonderful thing to behold if you find the right team. Sometimes you tryout for a team and it just seems right. They want your kid and she loves the coach and players from the start.  Sometimes it is different. Her first team she didn't get along with many of the other players at first. I think they viewed her as some kind of outsider. These same girs became her best friends after just a few weeks once they got know one another. Travel softball isn't for everyone. But hopefully if you are thinking of giving it a try I have given you some idea of what it could be like.  I hope you try it and it becomes as great an experiance as it has for me and my daughter because it will provide her with many wonderful memories she will keep for the rest of her life!

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Fastpitch Softball Pitching - Control Problems

I have a daughter that is very big into fastpitch softball. She started playing when she was 8 in little league fall ball. The next year she played little league in the spring ,all stars in the summer and then decided she wanted to start pitching. She started in august and pitched for fall ball little league. She worked really hard the next few months, got a whole lot better and we ended up finding her a 10u travel ball team the next spring for her play for and pitch. She played for 3 travel teams last year, 2 10u teams and a 12u team. She is 11 now and playing 12u ball for the Peaches in Yadkin, NC. She is one of the youngest on the team. Some of the girls are 7th graders and my daughter is in 5th. She is also one of the smallest. She is mainly an outfielder for this team and does really well. The coach wants her to pitch but she has had control problems. I think we have probably solved that and I wanted to share our experience.

We started going to a pitching coach when she first started to pitch. Honestly I figured she would try it and not like pitching or the work she would have to put in to become a real pitcher. I was wrong. She loves it. We go out most days and pitch and during the winter we go indoors and practice pitching, hitting and bunting. The first pitching coach we tried was at a hitting center. This woman was a great pitcher for a local college but we only went to one lesson. She seemed pretty good but we found one we liked better. This guy is one the nicest people I have ever met in my life. He actually works with my father in law, which is how we found him. He is very genuine and my daughter loves him to death and he has been coaching and teaching pitching for many years. They both teach pitching like so many others. Push off, open your hips and close them very fast. The faster you close your hips the better. She did that and actually pitched very well in 10u, especially last fall for the 10u Cardinals. They got a second place gold bracket finish with her pitching. She also got her first no hitter that tournament. Problem is, they pitch from 35 ft. Now she is pitching from 40ft. Her control left and never came back until recently.

Her travel ball coach eventually suggested something and she tried it. He said they teach this at the University of Arizona and after I researched it I found a lot more people teach this way now than I thought and it makes total sense. When you close you hips fast as she was taught, they start getting the way of your arm. Her pitches were tailing off bad to her right very often. She was worried about hitting her hip with the ball. A pitchers hips have absolutely nothing to do with how fast or accurate she throws the ball (at least not in a good way). What he suggested was don't close your hips at all. It is a huge adjustment but as she gets used to it I think her accuracy is coming back fast and her speed might actually be improving. While she is still getting used to it, when she does it right (which is more than half of the time now) she is very accurate. Also her delivery is much smoother than it was. She can relax her arm better because she doesn't have to think about hitting her hip as she releases. Now she does close up after the ball is gone but this is only for fielding purposes and has nothing to do with her pitching. It really does work. I would love to see what you guys think. This is just my personal experience. I am sure different things work for different people. Now I just have to figure out how to tell her pitching coach....

Watch Cat Osterman during her no hitter in the olympics. Notice how she never closes until well after the ball is gone.

UPDATE: My kid decided she could NOT do this... haha. Well know she does kind of a hybrid between both. She doesn't close her hips fast like she used to but she still does a little. It is what is comfortable for her. Her control is a lot better but we will find out tomorrow as she is pitching her first game of the spring.